So how come I stopped being the next Imelda? I was left with 3 pairs of shoes when I came back from Canada. For some strange reason, my shoe collection vanished without a trace and despite the fact that I don't have anyone in the household with the same shoe size as mine (I've big feet). I had my suspects then and these people probably sold my shoes (which were mostly worn only once then tucked back into its box). I cried buckets after I failed to see the pairs that I either bought from travels abroad, or were gifts from parents, or were purchased with my own school allowance. Papa dissuaded me from reporting to authorities. Looking back, I guess it was really weird to complain about missing pairs of shoes. After that, I swore never to buy more than what I can wear.
Years after that incident, I still buy branded shoes that can withstand the wear and tear of my feet. However, I am now more careful and more discerning in buying my footwear. I make sure that I buy classic designs that I can mix and match with my wardrobe and I can use for any occasion. So far I've been successful and I have been more vigilant in checking out my shoe cabinet for any missing pairs.
I prefer it this way now and I'm more at peace knowing that I can account for every pair that I own. A collection is good to look at but once it's gone, it's really gone.
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